I went back to work today after being sick most of this week. Anyway, the good news is that I got a call from the department I recently interviewed with (several times). They’ve called me in for a meet/greet either next week or the week after that. I’m really stoked about the whole thing. I do really well in the initial charm-’em department at least in work situations. I wish that the whole being charming and engaging would work in my social life. I’d like to be dating, not that there is any time or that I want to do anything other than date and meet new people. You know for all that I bitched about SS, I really realized last night, as in I get it realized, that most of her unpleasantness and generally unfriendly attitude towards me is really all about who she is and has little if anything to do with me. This is a pretty big shift for me because now I can leave her to her own misery and depression without having to personalize it or do anything to fix it. I”m a fixer, I think it comes from.. who cares were it comes from. its just what I do. I’ve learned to not be one so much as I’ve gotten older. It’s I think one of those characteristics that is both a bother and a blessing. They say being aware is a good starting point.

Just a weird question thrown out there but I’ve noticed that I’m losing the hair on my legs. Its become patchy, usually growing just fine were my jeans don’t rub on my legs. I don’t know what to do to make it grow back. Should I even, or just shave what is there and go leg-nude, LOL. Any guys have this happen to them? What did you do?

Author: Ken Craig-Saunders

Born in New York, Educated in the Berkshires, Became an adult in CA and found my Soul in Seattle. I'm a bearish middle aged, happy man who lives w my husbear in the OC.